Flour, Wine, and a Little Chaos: Hosting at Home

Pretend you're in Italy with all your favorite people. Get covered in flour and enjoy some laughs.

Want a dinner party idea? Build-your-own pizzas. Crank up some old-school Italian music, pour a few bottles of wine, and pretend you’re somewhere in Rome—half drunk on Chianti, elbows on the table, laughing with your whole body. No need for perfect crusts or curated place settings. Just good food, better people, and a whole lot of flour.

And the best part? It’s easy. You can prep almost everything the day before. Make your dough ahead of time and let it chill in the fridge overnight—it actually helps the flavor. Chop your toppings, grate your cheese, get everything ready so all you have to do when guests arrive is pull it all out, pour the wine, and let the night unfold.

That’s exactly what we did.

The kitchen turned into a kind of beautiful chaos. Dough was flying, wine was pouring, no rules just vibes and good times. The playlist bounced between Italian love songs and jazzy dinner music, and every few minutes someone yelled, “Wait, try mine!” while holding a slice like a trophy.

We had aprons on hand that helped make the abiance even more special (it helps to date a chef). Everyone picked one out and tied it on like it was a uniform. It made everything feel a little more cinematic, like we were all in an italian cooking class.

I got a little crafty and made menus earlier that day—just for fun, nothing fancy. A little extra flair to make the night feel special. Sometimes it’s those unnecessary details that make the whole thing feel like an event.

The spread was wild: spicy sausage, roasted peppers, basil, creamy burrata, sautéed mushrooms, shredded mozzarella, grilled chicken, pepperoni that crisped at the edges, and more. Everyone built their own pizza like it was an art project—some minimalist, some maximalist, all delicious. From classic margaritas, to buffalo chicken slices, we had it all and enjoyed it even more.

We used the Ooni outside for that quick-fire heat, but a pizza stone in a regular oven works just fine too. The crusts bubbled and blistered in minutes, the smell was outrageous, and the whole thing felt like something out of a dream—or at the very least, a good scene in a movie.

And just when we thought we’d hit peak perfection, my girlfriend brought out a homemade tiramisu. It was everything it needed to be with a pistachio added flare. We passed the dish around with spoons, full and barefoot, candles flickering on the table, flour still dusted across our sleeves.

So no, it wasn’t Italy. But it was something close—a warm, messy, wine-stained version that I’ll keep chasing again and again.

Recreate the Magic at Home

You don’t need a pizza oven or a perfectly styled kitchen to pull this off—just a little prep and a willingness to let things get a bit messy. Make your dough the day before (store it in the fridge overnight), prep your toppings in small bowls, and set everything out buffet-style so guests can build their own creations. A pizza stone in your regular oven works beautifully—just crank it up as hot as it goes. Light some taper candles, queue up an Italian playlist, and if you want to lean into the theme, have a few aprons on hand for guests to throw on. Add a bottle (or two) of wine, a simple dessert like tiramisu, and you’ve got yourself a dinner party that feels more like a memory than a meal.

Shop the Vibe

Recreate the night with a few favorites I love (click names for links):

  • Pizza Stone – For golden, crispy crusts if you’re not working with a pizza oven

  • Pizza Tools Set – Peel, cutter, and all the gear to look like you know what you’re doing

  • Matching Aprons – Some much needed flour protection

  • Tablecloths – Set the scene, plus a great go to for plenty of dinner party themes. 

  • Italian Dinner Playlist – think vintage records and full glasses

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